Being Tillys Mummy

Mother’s Day is fast approaching again and Mother’s Day is for anyone who has played a part of mum in your life. This might be, your stepmum, your aunt, your friend or your mum. This is about the lady who plays a special part of your life. A lady who deserves a beautiful Penguin necklace from Jana Reindhardt. You have a lot to be thankful for with your mum, so you will want to get her something special. Something that is unique and handmade. Getting her something sustainable and from a company with a good ethos is always good too. We were sent the cute Penguin necklace from Jana Reinhardt…

Create a Cosy Home Haven This Winter Your home should be your warm sanctuary during winter. Here’s how to make it happen with a little bit of cuteness and fun. Firstly this Plushie from Warmies is such a great idea. Warmies are cute little characters that you pop in the microwave for a few minutes and then you cuddle them up to keep warm. There is a label on the side of the Warmie that tells you how long to microwave the warmie for. Then you cuddle it up as you relax at home. These are so much safer than a water bottle, because you are not using hot water.…

Your Teen’s Mental Health During Winter The after Christmas slump and the dark January days can be hard for our teenagers. I have lived with my own personal mental health challenges and parenting a teenager. I understand how important it is to balance your teen’s mental health during winter months. Today, I want to share some heartfelt thoughts on supporting our teens through this challenging time of the year. I want to make it as easy as possible for you to help your child whilst balancing your own mental health. The shorter days and lack of sunlight can significantly impact our mood, and teenagers are particularly susceptible to these changes.…

The juggling act of being a teenager in today’s world can feel rather like trying to spin multiple plates whilst hopping on one foot. Between coursework deadlines, revision for GCSEs, and maintaining a social life, many teens find themselves wondering if there’s room for pursuing their beloved hobbies. As a parent watching my own teenager navigate these waters, I’ve learned that not only is there space for both, but hobbies can actually enhance academic performance when balanced properly. Hopefully this post will help you and your teenager to balance school and hobbies. Finding The Correct Way To Balance School And Hobbies The key to successful balance isn’t about choosing between…

Grounding doesn’t always have to mean keeping your child at home or limiting their social activities. Here are some creative and constructive alternatives to traditional grounding. When Tilly was little I used to take her kindle from her or use the naughty step. Often grounding a child makes it harder for yourself. Even sending a child to their bedroom isn’t a punishment as it is their happy place. Here are some alternative ways to ground your child 1. Productive Grounding 2. Educational Grounding 3. Community Service As Ways To Ground Your Child 4. Skill-Building Grounding 5. Reflective Grounding As Ways To Ground Your Child Sometimes their behavior is bad because…

How To Talk With Teenagers Communicating with teenagers can often feel like navigating a minefield. As they grow, teens face a whirlwind of physical, emotional, and social changes that can make even the simplest conversations challenging. However, with patience and the right approach, parents can foster open communication and strengthen their relationship with their teens. Here are ten essential tips on how to talk with teenagers. 1. Listen Actively One of the most crucial aspects of communication is listening. Teenagers, like everyone else, want to feel heard and understood. Active listening means fully concentrating on what the teen is saying, rather than just waiting for your turn to speak. This…