100 Things About Me

Thank you to Ruth at www.mummyandthemexicans.com for tagging me in the '100 things about me ' tag. Often you read a blog and you wonder about the person behind the blog. Here is 100 things that you might not know about me :)

1 What’s your name? Vicky
2 Any nicknames or aliases? Bitch, Vix, Wicky
3 Your gender? Female
4 Your star sign? Scorpio
5 How old are you? 45
6 Your relationship status? Single
7 Any children? 4 - how did that happen!
8 Any pets? No
9 Any tattoos or piercings? Had my ears pierced as a child.
10 What do you like about yourself? That I am one of a kind, that I have bipolar and it makes me different to other people around me.
11 What do you dislike about yourself? Lack of confidence sometimes, anxiety and stubbornness.
12 Righty or lefty? Lefty and proud.


13 The last thing you drank: Pepsi max
14 The last thing you ate: Haribo strawberry jelly sweet.
15 Your last phone call: to Tracy to talk about going on holiday.
16 Your last text message: to my friend Kaye, but the last one I received was from my daughter Kim.
17 Your last email: from Ryan Air reminding me of the new luggage allowance.
18 The last song you listened to: Queen, We Will Rock You.
19 The last book you read: can't remember
20 The last time you cried: The other day, when I was tired and had an awful migraine.
21 The last blog you read: Me, my life and the Tardis.
22 The last person you spoke to: Tilly, when we said good morning.
23 The last place you visited: the toilet.
24 Your last holiday abroad: Turkey with my friends.

Have you ever?

25 Have you ever gotten back with an ex? Too many times
26 Have you ever been cheated on? Yes
27 Have you ever cheated on someone? Yes
28 Have you ever lost someone special to you? Yes
29 Have you ever been so drunk you threw up? Too many times!
30 Have you ever fallen out of love with someone? Yes
31 Have you ever met someone who changed you? Yes, Tilly changed me on the day she was born.
32 Have you ever been in a situation where you found out who your real friends are? Yes when my daughter was groomed by a paedophile and I found out exactly who was there for me and who just wanted the gossip.
33 Have you ever kissed someone you probably shouldn’t have? More than a few times. It's the thrill of the naughtiness.
34 Have you ever found out people were talking about you behind your back? It happens all the time because people are not man enough to tell you themselves.
35 Have you ever broken someone’s heart? I don't think so, but I probably have.
36 Have you ever kissed a stranger? Yes
37 Have you ever had your own heart broken? A few times
38 Have you ever had sex on the first date? Not so much on a first date but I have had a few one night stands.
39 Have you ever been arrested? Not quite but I have been bought home in a police car a few times.
40 Have you ever been attracted to someone that isn’t the gender you usually find attractive? We all have girl crushes!
41 Have you ever done something you regret? No because if we made a mistake, then we learn from it.
42 Have you ever had a threesome? Only with me, a bottle of vodka and a chocolate bar.
43 Have you ever embarrassed yourself in public? More times than I wish to admit.
44 Have you ever misjudged someone? As much as I try not to, I think we all misjudge people a lot.

Your beliefs and opinions

45 Do you believe in God? No.
46 Do you believe in yourself? Sometimes, but other times I feel myself failing as a friend, as a mother and as colleague
47 Do you believe in Santa Claus? Will I get presents if I say no?
48 Do you believe in ghosts? No but I believe that there are spirits around us, ghost is a word made up to scare you.
49 Do you believe in aliens? Maybe, I have seen Star Wars
50 Do you believe in miracles? I think this goes with religion and if miracles happen, then it would have happened to me when I needed help the most.
51 Do you believe in the power of positive thinking? No
52 Do you believe in love at first sight? No, I believe in Lust at first sight, but love is something that grows. Unless of course its your child, but that love has grown over the past nine months that you carried them in pregnancy
53 Can money make you happy? It can make life easier, which in turn makes you happier
54 Would you describe yourself as a feminist? No
55 Are you pro-life or pro-choice? I don't have an opinion because some people are desperate and a termination is their only way out, Sometimes there are medical reasons. I thought about a termination once - for about 3 minutes. Until you're in this position, you can't judge
56 Do you have strong political beliefs? I believe Trump is a dick, that will undo all of the peace that previous presidents of America has helped to work towards. I think he is racist and I fear for the world with him as president. As for UK politics, there are just no words
57 Do you have strong religious beliefs? No, but I encourage Tilly to go to Messy church as its her choice whether to have religion in her life.
58 What do you think the most important thing you can give a child is? Love unconditionally, Forgiveness when they do wrong, Money when they go to town, so you know they won't shoplift, Understanding and an ear to listen.

Right now
59 Are you eating anything right now? Cooked breakfast in Wetherspoons
60 Are you drinking anything right now? Pepsi Max
61 What are you listening to right now? People complaining about the Wetherspoons menu
62 What are you thinking about right now? Stopping this blog post to get to my physio appointment
63 What are you waiting for right now? nothing
64 What are you most excited about right now? Going to Denmark at the weekend
65 What’s your pet hate right now? If I told you then it wouldn't be a very polite blog post
66 What’s your favourite thing right now? Travel
67 If you weren’t answering these questions, what would you be doing right now? Something constructive   lurking on Facebook.


68 Your first best friend: I don't remember, but I am still in touch with loads of old school friends
69 Your first kiss: I have no idea
70 Your first celebrity crush: Patrick Swayze
71 Your first holiday: I was an army kid, so I can't remember as we had many travels as a child
72 Your first pet: A dog
73 Your first regret: I don't have regrets except for one, When my daughter was groomed by a paedophile, I should have gone to grab her from him. But deep down, I knew she would have gone back to him
74 Your first job: For the NAAFI
75: Your first childhood memory: Wetting the bed and blaming a leak in the ceiling

Which would you choose?

76 Love or money? Love
77 Twitter or Facebook? Instagram
78 Hook up or relationship? Hook up
79 Dogs or cats? Neither
80 Coffee or tea? Tea
81 Beer or wine? Wine
82 Sweet or savoury? Savoury
83 Introvert or extrovert? Extrovert
84 Vampires or werewolves? Vampires
85 Seaside or countryside? Seaside
86 Summer or winter? Summer
87 Books or movies Movies
88 Horror or comedy? Comedy

A few random questions to finish on

89 Do you wish you could change your past? No, the past defines who you are. Although I feel that my husband and I could have tried harder at our marriage. If we had been for marriage counselling then our marriage could have lasted longer than 5 months
90 What’s your dream job? Anything working abroad
91 What’s your guilty pleasure? Vodka
92 What are you afraid of? Losing another child
93 What was the first thing you wanted to be when you grew up? Forensic scientist
94 If you could have any super power, what would it be? I am a mum, I already have a superpower
95 If you could change anything about your life what would it be? I would watch my daughter more closely on the internet
96 Would you want immortality? No
97 If you could interview anyone alive or dead who would you choose? The Mc Canns to ask them why they (apparently) drugged their kids and went out to dinner
98 Would you say you are happy? As happy as I can be
99 What one piece of advice would you give to yourself at age eighteen? Be yourself and if people don't like it - tough
100 Where would you like to be in five years’ time Travelling the world!

I now tag

Libby at ourplaypalace.com
Sarah at www.justbuttonsblog.co.uk
Romeca at beautybumpandme.com
Gemma at www.mumonanisland.com
Amy at www.thesmallestofthings.com
Kathleen at mummytofiveboys.com
Kate at modernmum.net
Nichole at www.rollingwithmarbles.com
Zoe at www.mymummysworld.co.uk/
Kim at www.memylifeandthetardis.co.uk