They Failed My Family

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  1. Well done for posting this you and your family have been through so much and I can not even begin to imagine what it must have been like that very first time you found out the truth about him. I really hope one day your daughter realises and finds the courage to leave him. I want to give you a huge hug x

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  2. I am so, so sorry to hear of everything you and your family have been through. It's an absolute outrage that Nathan Green hasn't been sent to prison! I wish that things were different so you could have your grandchild in your care and that your daughter would return home to you. What a sick and twisted world we live in :(
    Sending big virtual hugs Xxx

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  3. It's a shame your daughter chose him over her own child and I only hope she gets therapy to see what he's done to her.
    I feel for you as I imagine you may have had pressure to take on your grandchild and relocate by social services. I hope they find a perfect forever family to help ease your pain

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    1. I totally get your comment about her choosing her boyfriend over her baby but what a lot of people don't understand is that he spent 3 years grooming her online before they finally met. Three years to make her see things from his view and 3 years to brain wash her. 3 years that I just thought they were friends. Then another year of living together now and she has been brainwashed by him. This is like domestic violence where the partner abuses you physically and mentally until you come round to their way of thinking. She has no idea that anything is wrong because that's what he has done to her. So it's not as simple as her choosing the boyfriend over the child.
      I know a few months ago I would of wondered how a mother could choose her partner over her child but now I see it from a totally different perspective. Hopefully she will see sense and leave him but these monsters are clever and they take every bit of you self respect , your dignity and your confidence away. I know they will find her a nice home with a family who yearn for a child.

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  4. Well done vicky, on speaking out about this vile excuse of a human being. You are a brave, brave lady. Having read the crimes he is charged with I am shocked that he isn't locked up. I am sorry that he has deprived you and your family of a daughter/sister and a grandaughter/niece. I am sorry that he is still able to control Beth to the point she can't see what he really is. This is and awful story with a heartbreaking finish but yiu have stayed so strong throughout and done what was best for Tilly. You should feel proud of yourself amongst all them other feelings. Xxx

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  5. What a hideous situation to have to live through. I admire your strength and I hope you are able to remain resolute in your decision to not let this get the better of you! Sending lots of love and possitivity to you all xx

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    1. Thankyou for the comment and love. Sometimes I don't feel strong, but know i have to carry on for the rest of my family

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  6. I left a lovely sweet lad for another. A man who I thought cared for me but really he was manipulating me, brainwashing me, making me do things that were wrong. I was raped, I got pregnant, went through an abortion aged 16 and even after telling my side of the story I was still called cruel things because I had an abortion. I got lucky and got out of that man's clutches. He still stalks me but I have tried my best to keep hidden and so far he's not made contact with me in 5 years, though tried to contact a friend of mine 3 years ago. I feel awful for your family and your daughter. It was the hardest thing for me to get out of that relationship and I can imagine as she's been groomed for so long now she may be in too deep to simply get herself out. I hope one day she does. Thank you for sharing x

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing, You were so lucky to be able to get away, but I imagine its hard to carry on knowing that he is still out there. People never understand a situation untill they live it. I wish you all the best for the future xx

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  7. I am confident she will one day, but until then I have to take a step back and wait for her to make the right choice xx

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  8. I am confident she will one day, but until then I have to take a step back and wait for her to make the right choice xx

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  9. I hope your daughter sees sense and packs her things to come home soon.
    Name and shame is the right thing. People need to be informed about Paedophiles. The judicial system has failed you so badly, its saying it's okay to be a Paedophile.
    There's something so wrong with Paedophiles there isn't an over night cure. He should be locked up and given the help he needs in prison.
    Sending you much love I hope there light at the end of the tunnel soon. Xx

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  10. I am so sorry what an awful thing to happen. I have no faith in our justice system whatsoever. I hope that one day your daughter will be able to break free.

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